Wedding planning is a wonderful journey filled with excitement, anticipation, and a fair share of stress. And when it comes to seeking inspiration, many brides-to-be turn to Pinterest. As a wedding photographer, I’ve seen the beauty and creativity that Pinterest inspires, but also the unrealistic expectations it often creates. So, let’s unpack four common myths that Pinterest perpetuates about weddings.

1. All Your Bridesmaids Must Match

With perfectly coordinated bridal parties dominating Pinterest feeds, you might feel compelled to have your bridesmaids in identical dresses. While this can look beautiful, it’s not a must. Embracing individual styles and allowing for variations in dresses can add a unique touch to your wedding. The key is to ensure everyone feels comfortable and beautiful in what they’re wearing.

2. DIY Is Always Better

Pinterest often suggests that a wedding isn’t truly personal unless you’ve DIYed every single detail. Yes, DIY projects can add a unique touch, but they can also be time-consuming and stressful. The Pinterest images don’t show the long hours, multiple attempts, and occasional frustrations that accompany DIY. Remember, it’s okay to delegate and seek professional help. Your wedding day should be enjoyed, not overwhelmed by the pressure of handcrafting every single element.

3. You Can Replicate Any Pinterest Photo Exactly

It’s not uncommon for brides to approach me with a Pinterest image, hoping to recreate it exactly on their wedding day. But remember, those photos were taken in specific locations, with unique lighting, specific couples, and often enhanced through advanced editing. While these images can serve as inspiration, a carbon copy isn’t always possible or even desirable. Trust your photographer to capture your special moments in a way that reflects your authentic love story.

4. You Need To Follow Current Trends

Pinterest is a trendsetter’s paradise, but it can make brides feel that they must incorporate the latest wedding trends to have a memorable day. However, your wedding doesn’t need to feature the trendiest colors, flowers, or styles to be special. Stick to what reflects you and your partner’s personal tastes and shared experiences. Trends fade, but your personal touch is timeless.

While Pinterest can be a valuable source of wedding inspiration, it’s important to remember that it doesn’t define the success or beauty of your wedding. Your special day is about you and your partner. It’s about the love you share, the memories you create, and the start of a new chapter together. So embrace the perfect imperfections, and create a wedding that reflects your unique love story.